How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:48
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What is world history that not many people know about?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why are some people afraid of monsters?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Hangs out with loser friends.
What do you do when your family doesn’t care about you?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why are the Chinese so sensitive to Western criticism?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Why has Biden pulled ahead in battleground states and is now projected to win the 2024 presidency?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Do all you people that took the "jab" feel lied to yet?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Why do I sweat so much after applying moisture or sun screen on my face? I have normal skin.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
That's it for today.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What smell will you never forget?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why cant I motivate myself to go to school (grade 10)?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?